It disgusts me that there are people in my life that have demonstrated that they are willing to burn their own homes for anger with an enemy.
All that does is cause more harm to everyone around you.
Be an adult. Grow up. Don’t harm your family.
Family doesn’t hurt Ohana (family).
You are hurting your own children for your own anger with an enemy that isn’t your enemy and it’s disgusting.
Be better for your children, your immediate family, and your extended Ohana.