Good Sci-Fi quote

“When you form a good bond, it’s an advantage. And when it’s gone, you’re weaker without it,” Paul explained, not tearing up but Kara could hear the strain his voice as he shut off his own memories from her. “If you relied upon it, then you will be hobbled. So the trick of it is to gain from it, but not rely on it. You doubt your own merit, and are relying on others for any calibration you can get. That leaves you vulnerable when it gets pulled out from under you.”